Join us for a journey into these ideas: 

Friday: Writing in the Wellness of Everyday: There is a fallacy to creativity in that many believe it first requires crisis and that self-destruction is the fast track to creative success. We hope to challenge this long-held notion by encouraging you to seek creation in wellness. You are here, awake, alert, alive. Your next essay doesn’t need to come from a bad breakup; the quote “write drunk, edit sober” doesn’t need to be taped above your desk. In this initial session we will introduce this notion of “writing in wellness” through introductions, inspirations, and an “altar” exercise. Tyler and Bethany will then talk about their ten-year backstory and the power of being penpals.
Saturday Morning: Writing Through Hard Emotions: Therapeutic writing is simply writing that relates to healing, addressing the dis-ease of our lives. For many, memoir, essays, and short stories are ways to record personal histories. And yet, all story is fiction. It is the way I remember the Christmas of 1990, not the way you do. Learning to confront our own stories, depict friends and family, and learning how and when to separate sentiment from narrative is important. In this session Bethany will lead the group in writing practice based on Where I’m From poems used in classrooms across the country. Tyler will give personal anecdotes about lessons learned as a memoir writer.
Saturday Afternoon: The Art of Honesty: Finding your particular voice can be scary in life, and in writing. We learn from a very early age through mimicry, encouragement, and relationship. Our writing has a similar developmental process. We learn by what we read, we write using the voice of our teachers, our muses, our inspirations. And then we come into our own. This 3rd session will blend writing prompts and exercises with an exploration of the land at the Whidbey Institute. Bethany will offer conversation around thin/thick descriptions used in therapeutic spaces as a way to offer engagement around honest writing, and Bethany and Tyler will discuss their chosen platforms as places that hold their honesty best.
Final Day: Addressing the Ego: Ways to Avoid Taking Personal Critique Personally: Any creative process and art form that is to be shared asks of us to sacrifice our ego on the altar of criticism. Not everything we do will be loved. Not everything we write will be understood. Not every story will translate to a larger audience. So how do we survive the scrutiny of others while at the same time bravely offering ourselves to the world? This session will address tips and tricks of the trade: How to grow more comfortable sharing your work, how to metabolize rejection and critique, how to send your super-ego to a timeout in order to pursue the work.

Tyler is a professional writer, working for the Mountaineers in Washington, and Bethany is a therapist in private practice in Seattle. After 8 years of being pen-pals, they finally live in the same city again and  are excited to share the treasures that writing can bring to an intimate group this fall.

This writing retreat is not only a space to write, reflect, and learn. It is also a space to be quiet, to connect to the rhythms of the earth, the stories of the land, and to allow your body and mind to both rest and be enlivened to write again, write down what is in your bones, write down what your heart cannot let go of, write for health and healing, write for necessity. 

Yoga, and one of our writing workshops will be provided by the lovely Sarah Goettsch - a yoga instructor and writer located in West Seattle and wherever the wind takes her.

Offerings and opportunities include:​​
  • Workshops on therapeutic writing, poetry, non-fiction, publishing, pen-pals, writing through grief, and rediscovering the sacredness of the written word
  • Daily yoga with a trained teacher and mindfulness practice
  • Forest walks/hikes through the land
  • Locally sourced meals 
  • Open space and writing time
We hope you will join us. 

March 13-15 2020 Tender//Wild Writing Retreat
The Whidbey Institute
​Clinton, WA

3pm on Friday to 2pm on Sunday
SOLD OUT Regular Rate, single bed, solo lodging: $850
SOLD OUT  Regular Rate, two beds, shared lodging: $800

**All costs include lodging at the Whidbey Institute's Cabin Village, deliciously fresh meals, and carefully tended workshop guidance. Please fill out the form below before registering!
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